Well Happy birthday Jil.
I guess that kept me in the loop too - my only conception of fun as a 20 something was drinking til I fell down...trouble was 20 years later it was still my only concept of fun....only it wasn't fun anymore.
I know now there are many other ways to have fun...I wish I'd had the imagination and the insight to think about those ways back in the 80s.
Do you have many sober friends Jil?
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