Originally Posted by
susanlauren 
Today I have been thinking about "the best things" that have ever happened to me and "the worst things" that have ever happened to me. I am coming to the conclusion that I don't know and can't judge what is "good" or "bad".
Things that I thought were bad/terrible/awful have turned out to be blessings and gifts. Things that I thought were good/helpful/desirable have turned out to be disasters in the making. What has been your experience?
Susan
Going through a "situation" where complete unmanagibility came crashing into my life in the last month turned out to be good for me. When it happened I felt as if the world had came crashing on me, but they have a saying in AA around me--"when the pain gets great enough, you start to move"-- so i hit a couple of things i wasnt seeing in inventory and today I am free as a result of that....when i say I am free, not only are the resentments and fears gone, but I feel like I have grown immensely through this experience.