Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Oxnard (The Nard), CA, USA.
Posts: 13,980
I say staying safe is your first priority. That means doing everything you have to do in order keep yourself out of any possible harm. Be it both emotional and physical harm.
As for him, depending on the severity of the bipolar disorder (and from the looks of your post...it is) he might want to consider medical management with therapy to get things smoothed out again...or as it seems, never smooth to begin with.