Maybe she will, maybe not. It depends on if she gets into real recovery (where SHE wants it for HERSELF) and honestly works the program. My ex was 2 years sober BEFORE I met him (but not in actual recovery) and 2 1/2 years later, he still blames and doesn't take responsibility for anything he does. It's a crap shot we can't predict as it depends solely on the specific A. In fact the last words I ever heard from him was that I destroyed his life...because I learned about all of his lies, that he cheated on me for 8 months and left him.