I don't turn to my family, either. They would judge too harshly and its just not healthy (like my mom who drinks a fair amount of wine on a daily basis...I mean, she brings alcoholic beverages to my child's t-ball games! But I digress...LOL) or productive. Last night, I tried to call a couple of friends who weren't around but really needed to vent and get a little clarity...quickly. SR was the absolute next stop for me.