Old 06-11-2011, 10:20 PM
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Lunakim
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Getting married to a binge drinker....HELP

Good evening!
I am getting married in less than a week to a binge drinker.
FH is a binge drinker and has been a binge drinker for the length of our relationship. He has been to counseling sessions and quit drinking for a month, but ended up losing his strenghth and started up again.
I need help!!!! What are some consequences or ultimatums?
I do not want to just give up and walk away. I plan on attending Al Non meetings.
He drinks at least 10-14 beers in less than 2 hours and when I confront hi
His words are I'm a grown man I can do what I want. If he's not drinking then he will jump to smoking pot. He has an addictive personality and is immature.
I have given him ultimatiums in the past and nothing has worked.
He does not get violent with me but he does get rude and name call or degrade me. Please help
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