further to the above messages i feel worried he may 'get nasty' hes had a horrible intimidating ragefull temper over the years. he has screamed at me holy cr@p more years than i care to remember. he has truly frightened me many times.
hes also got this habit whereby he will attempt to undermine those who disagree with him, essentially he will ****** your own stability use what he knows about you to help you feel insecure and make out other people in the family are saying nasty things about you. im frightened he may do this. hes screwed now though because people in the family know im codie. if he has to suffer he has to suffer im not lying