Hello All:
Thanks so much for your words of wisdom and help. I am not staying at my home as a means to not see him in person, I also don't feel safe there. He has been showing up at my house uninvited (which the police say ins't illegal) to talk to me etc. Last night he apparently knocked on my door and left a note. Then he knocked on my neighbor's door (its a condo) as well. She told him to back off and that I was staying with a friend and why I wasn't living there. She informed me of the conversation that they had. I feel really bad now because he is trying to use her as a means to get to me. She has been very supportive to me throughout this ordeal and I don't want her to feel like she has to be involved in this nightmare. I am not sure what I should do.