I grew up in a culture of "shoulds". You should have done this, you should not have done that, you should have known, etc... In other words, I was raised in a punitive and guilt-producing society. It haunts me to this day! To heck with it, though! Life is here to be enjoyed! I am getting a cleaning lady, by the way. It will cost me money, but I'll get more free time for myself, and that is priceless!
