Hi Saphira,
I know my husband resented my drinking too, because it upset his world. It's very hard to acknowleldge the pain that I caused when I was drinking, because nothing can change it. All we can do is to acknowledge the feelings and let them go. Forgive yourself, over and over if you have to. You can let your husband know that you are willing to talk about his resentments if you want to. That might help him.