You are in the right place. If you don't feel like sharing at meetings listening and finding similarities is always a good thing as well. A.A. saved my life and I never shared the first month or two I went. I listened and learned what the disease of alcoholism was cause I had absolutely no idea what it was. I read the doctors opinion and it was music to my ears. I have not had to take a drink since my first step in the rooms of alcoholics anonymous and for that I am grateful.