It's been about 10 days for me also. From her, 1 phone call about money, 1 email saying she was sorry for complaining about money and how her rehab was going and how she missed me and blah, blah, blah. My response to phone call, I earned, I can afford it, if you're worried about money get a job, goodbye. I didn't respond to the email.
It's funny though. For being NC I have multiple discussions and fights with her several times a day in my head.
Oh, well. One day at a time.