Bikerhelp

This will be a long read….

Wife and I have been through a lot in our 15years together… We lost 3 month old to sids the next time she got pregnant we had a miscarriage…. Then the third time we had a perfect boy…
Our past 5 years has been a roller coaster… I stepped out on us with her best friend and it was like taking a piece of her.
After that we had quite a few fights and told her to move out and she did she bought a trailer and moved out. She will come back to the house after a few days… A few weeks went by and we agreed to see a marriage counselor and we did we went weekly for about 6 months… Then she started going by herself… Lasted only a few weeks…
We went for a couple of weeks and things seemed to be getting better for us then she started drinking and either not coming home or coming home real early in the morning (6-7am) she works a night job and hangs out with night people…. Tells me I have nothing to worry about… When she drinks and she is out I ask her who her baby sitter is because when we go out I have to watch what she is doing or she over does it and either falls down or just wants to argue….
We went for a week or so and did not see each other… Last Friday night we went out and the night started great and she started drinking…. We went all night then came home when we go home I wanted to go to bed and she got mad at me and left for the night… She text me first thing in the morning to tell me again she left because I was being a jerk because I would not stay up with her and talk…. When she gets to drinking she starts rambling…. So Saturday evening we went and saw a movie and went get a bite to eat, She ordered a wine which was buy one get one and then ordered another…. I stopped and she asked me to order a drink or water so she did not look bad sitting there with the wine… We left the restaurant and she stopped and got a bottle of wine… We sit on the couch and start talking about things and she brings up that I only want her for money and that’s it. And I do not love her but she loves me and I try to tell her no but she will not stop at this point. I tell her I am going to bed and she gets mad… Says I am not walking away again I tell her no I do not want to argue she swears we are not but nothing I say to her matters I tell her when she does not drink we get along fine…
When she gets the 3rd wine going into the 4th is when I have to put up my defence… She says shes not drunk and when she leaves the house she is always smashed… She does not drink “all” of the time but when she is off I know what is coming almost everytime… Does this seems bipolar or is this and alcoholic?

Any questions I will be more than happy to answer…
Thanks