if he quits...he needs to quit for the right reasons..HIMSELF...or hits rock bottom with the line "i surrender", or "i am just sickn tired of being sickn tired"...that would be for HIM to figure out HIS OWN RECOVERY...
now you....you are SICK N TIRED..arent you?
1st things 1st
the 3 C's
you did not cause this
you can not control this
and there is NO CURE
AL ANON is for you...so much wisdom in those rooms...
step 1
we admit we are powerless over alcohol/drugs (or people, places or things)-- that our lives have become unmanageable...yep that was me....