Hello Barb and thank you for your reply. I know we definitely need help but with him not working we have no money, we don't even have any food right now, well outside of a couple of pieces of lunch meat and a pack of hot dogs. When I get my piddly check the 3rd I am going to make a counseling appointment for myself and see if he would like to make one as well. I know he will because he desperately wants someone to talk to. Our small area has limited resources sadly. He wants a sponsor badly too so I hope he can find one soon. Hoping a job is on the horizon for him too..he has applied everywhere imaginable with not one call yet..mighty frustrating for him and I worry. Codie alert I suppose??? I know I should focus on myself but crap it's hard to do. Thanks again hun.