QUOTE: So, my question is: Am I right to be really concerned about this situation?
I'd say youre pretty concerned already and its obvious there are some 'trust' issues. If she's telling another man she loves him in front of you and texting him, "why are you even questioning it"? Its right in front of your face. It seems recovery isnt 100% on her list of priorities right now.
Really though, every time my sister went into rehab (yes, everytime) she would meet a new 'friend'. Oh yes someone she related to alright and she didnt care who got hurt. Oh and of course the new 'friend' used her and got what he 'wanted' too.
See, alcoholism is pretty much about 'their needs & wants' not yours right now. Harsh, yep, but what is it going to take for you to 'see' whats really going on.
Take care.
JJ