Originally Posted by
LaPinturaBella 
WTBH...I got the impression right off the bat you're a self-centered, cold bitch NOT!!!!
LOL! I know it, right?! I am an opinionated, stubborn, feisy "bitch" at times-- but cold? Not so much. In fact I wish I were a bit more self centered and cold bc I'd have left AH years ago and not struggle with such damned co-dependency.
It just boggles my brain how they can do a complete 360 in .0001 seconds flat. They looooove you one moment and the next instant you're Hitler reincarnated.
Wow, just when I think I can't be surprised... I didn't realize that this was a common quacking method-- I found myself surprised by AH last week when he started in with this kind of thing and thought it was just him... Ahhh, relief. It's still insane to hear it but knowing that it's more common than I thought makes it easier to digest somehow, kwim?