Thanks for your support everyone! I think you all are right, and I have already taken the steps to cut both of them out life. They can do what they want! I'm just lucky to be out of this mess.
The night before I was able to receive closure, I went before god and finally just prayed and said how grateful I was. I hadn't done that in a long time. I am starting to have more and more confidence again that my HP is guiding me through this and doing whats the absolute BEST for me!