Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
Good idea Fandy. I've been afraid to do that bc I don't want the threat of "you're keeping the girls from me" but I guess he can call and I can hand d5 the phone and not have to even answer...
I told him last night to please research & buy life insurance today bc if he plans to continue his slow march to death, I don't want the girls left destitute.
That probably wasn't a nice thing to say but it's true- he does need to get life insurance and I bought some years ago and shocker, he's been delaying it...
you can take out a policy on him and make your daughters beneficiaries...at least you would know that the premiums are paid.
You don't always have to be *nice*....you can be matter of fact and truthful...he's a big boy, he made his decision.