FLAMER. Sorry. I wanted to point out some "resentments" that I was interpreting in this post. In my FLAME, I myself was being resentful and judgemental.
As an AA'er, I try to sit back, take it in, and not respond with the first thing that comes to my mind. Usually easy, but in "internet" communication, the anonymous nature sometimes brings out the "resenter" in all of us.
Step 10 folks, step 10. Sorry.