We had that conversation. He scared me with his aggression. I was really shaken for a few days. I wrote it out like you did just to get it out of my brain.
And it was so good for me to realize that I would NEVER put myself on the receiving end of things so mean and untrue again. EVER.
He could take his lies, anger, manipulation and blaming somewhere else because *I* was going to protect myself from that moment on.
It was a real turning point.