yep. anything small enough goes straight to a safety deposit box TODAY.
get the ball going now on the divorce
(whatever happened to abandonment)
oh well.
start separating the 'mine and thine' stuff
make sure your $$$ is safe and completely, untouchable yours
even if you have to cash every check and put it in the safety deposit box.
make sure the school knows he does not have permission to remove them from school.
you don't need a court order for that in most states.
whatever you can batten down - get to battening.
car in your name only.
insurance in your name only.
make sure you have both sets of keys.
sorry this is happening.
and if an order of protection is necessary the lawyer can tell you that.
if you have savings - USE it to get a real lawyer
and not a friend of a friend.
friends of friends as lawyers never work out.
be as secretive as a mouse
and as protective as a mama bear.
and we're here when you need to talk.
soon enough = you'll be in a loser free zone!
oh. and get a p.o.box.
it'll be a pain, but the mail is separate.
the leaving the state part sounds good because if he's broke he can't follow.