I just have a sec but am so inspired by reading everyone else's thoughts and am really glad that this struck a chord--
I need to re-read my own words right now bc I dealt with a very drunk, very nasty AH last night and I just left the courthouse where AH basically walked away with no consequence for assaulting me.
I feel it would be VERY easy for me to slip back into my old role, and patterns and am going straight from typing this to re-reading what I and all of you wrote bc it will help get me back in a good state of mind!