Originally Posted by
Ijusdonknow 
I know already that this is a lose lose situation for me at least until HE is ready to change, and I know from what I see, that is not my case. I want to take what I can now, put in my car, and drive away.
I recommend that you take your own advice, the best of the available cars, and some cash to fill up with gasoline a couple of times on your way back to your hometown. If no relatives are able to let you live with them , then enough money for three months rent.