That is a lot of responsibility to be carrying around on ones shoulders.
The more I work a program and seek my HP the more I realize that they to have a HP and it is not me.
I don't have any control over what another does, thinks, or acts and when I think I do it is about my powerlessness and a tad bit ego.
Lead by example people saw me getting better and eventually it caught on.
I also said the serenity prayer more times than I could count
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change (them)
courage to change the things I can(me) and the wisdom to know the difference.(HP)