Daisy hello (My 21 year old daughters name too )
Im now divorced.
When I went to rehab. My wife did not come to visit , when she called there was always and argument . I got home after weeks and went straight down to buy alcohol.
I was there for her. NOT ME.
I went because she said ."If you dont go to rehab, Im leaving".
Unfortunately , Im not good with threats like that and ultimately also, did not want to stop drinking.
I lied to rehab people, lied to myself.
If your husband is in rehab for himself, that is wonderful.
If not , like my wife did, you will find out sooner or later.
thanks for putting your post up. \
I hope it works out well for both of you .
Kind Regards
L