Originally Posted by
Kassie2 
He used to tell me that he loved how tenaciously I could love someone - so I decided i needed to love myself the same way.
It does seem like everyone and everything we let go of has claw marks on it... unless it's something for us. If it's for us, it's suddenly unimportant. We need to actually sit down and learn how to do things for ourselves.
Thank you so much for this. You worded it perfectly.