Oh crap, Cyranoak. I am sorry. But you sound at peace with it. And good for having a back up plan with your daughter.
How did you see it coming? Was there particular little red flags lately?
Funny - relapse is something I don't fear myself...it kind of feels inevitable and therefore isn't a threat. I suppose that's what recovery does for us...gives us some sense of peace with reality regardless...
Take good care,
T