Quacking... people claiming to focus on their own recovery (AH, others) and repeatedly pointing out to me all I am doing wrong with mine. For far too long I defended and tried to prove to AH how what he was saying wasn't accurate and all that did was fuel his fire.
If AH were really in recovery and wanted to share HIS ESH that would be great. Quacking on a pedastal to avoid looking at yourself-- not so much.
Particularly when it's done while he's drunk and claiming how recovered he is!
:rotfxko