I'm sorry you're in a bad situation right now Grandnana.
I can promise you that there's nothing to be gained by going backwards tho...I encourage you to keep sober and keep moving forward....
it's my experience that there's not a lot I can do about some dysfunctional family members, but I can make sure I'm doing right by me.
Sometimes all things needed was a little time.
I hope that things will work out for you with your family.
Are you using any support network apart from us?
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