Hey Looking,
Wow, you are dealing with a lot of things right now. Add those pregnancy hormones into the mix and I bet you feel overwhelmed every day. It sounds like you've tried to get him to talk to you about the way you're feeling, and he's not giving you much in return. Matter of fact, it doesn't sound like he's giving you much at all, period.
Have you thought about Alanon meetings, or couseling? Both of those would give you an outlet for all the emotions that you have swirling around right now.
In the meantime, feel free to vent here anytime.
Welcome to Sober Recovery, I'm glad you found us.
Hugs,
Gabe