Originally Posted by Babyblue

No one should tell you what to do on these boards. I'm all for setting boundaries and he may not like it but at least it maintains your ability to communicate.

I don't see not picking someone up as setting a boundary. To me that would be after I tell them I can't pick them up and if they try to pursuade me to change my mind, that is when the boundary goes into place (I won't let him pursaude me to change my mind about this).