(((Noidea))) - welcome to SR!!
I have to agree..call the PO. FWIW, I'm an RA (recovering addict) as well as a recovering codie (loved ones who are/were addicts/alcoholics).
I didn't hit my bottom, in my addiction, until I had enough consequences build up, and they included some jail time.
You have the right to feel safe on your own property, and it will do NO GOOD to try to talk to him. When we're active in our addiction, the only voice we hear is "more, more, more".
This is a great place for people who "get" what you're going through.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy