As so many ppl say not to judge, we seem to be judging just, I feel it is ok for just to vent, just as ppl vent about thier alcoholic boyfriends/husbands/girlfiends or exes. Do we even know if this person was an alcoholic? Many ppl have issues with ppl in their lives on here and we only hear one side but be that in mind we still listen to what bothers them. Whether you believe how just feels is right or wrong, just listen and don't pass judgement yourself. I'm sure the man really needed the money but that still does not make it ok, would you feel the same way if he came in your home?