Hi, and welcome.
If he is drinking at all, he has not recovered, at least in the way that I understand recovery... I am AA.
Worry about you. Do what you need to be happy, in this life... What he does or doesn't do, well, you have no control.
Mystifying, isn't it?... for a man to p1ss away everything like that... Untreated, active alcoholism sux.... for everyone.