artsoul, I was so happy to see a thread by you. I always love your posts.
I agree that it is a new level of difficulty/complications/opportunity/etc when you feel more stable in sobriety and start to deal with other aspects of living. Isn't it great to be alive!?
I hope it keeps getting better. (you can peel an onion one layer at a time. it does not have to be done all at once.)