I most certainly will hold your hand!
You are a strong capable woman.
You can endure just about anything in the short term and soon this will all be a memory
you recount for those needing the encouragement of your experience.
I have been where you are.
I packed a 14' truck myself with only a few guys last minute to load a few heavy things.
I had to plan, plot, and muddle through a week long ordeal of moving and hauling myself, a full house of stuff, 3 cats, 2 dogs, and 3 horses 7 hours away from XABF. He spent that time drunk and numb.
I made it through that hell with a new insight into my superhero deep within and you will find the same in yourself.
We are here for you!!
Keep posting.
Keep breathing.
Keep moving forward.
It only feels like you're climbing a mountain until you reach the summit.
Hugs!!
Alice