hi missedthemark,
i just wanted to welcome you to SR. my husband of 5 yrs is a cocaine user and still in denial. and it is very hard. after several yrs of trying to stay and see signs of improvement i ended up in just about the same spot i started at.
i am not trying to say that your situation is the same. it's just that coke and crack are very powerful and hard to get rid off. he has to be really serious about wanting to get clean.
i don't want to harp on with my story, but please keep posting and reading as much as you can b/c it helps. people here are wonderful and have helped me a lot.
hugs and prayers.