contents under pressure tend to explode.
well you got it out this time
after how many years?
now, when the ashes hit the ground
you'vfe an empty tank
and it's our responsibility
not to let them build like they did before.
That's all part of the new persona.
The new personal
doesn't 'stuff' those things.
The thing I tell myself is
"oh yeah - I don't allow this any more"
What you describe I call 'the damburst".
You're setting a boundary
now all you have to do is keep your side of it.
Just look at us grow!!!