Almost 5 months into some serious AA, and my RAH is still a total a-hole. I don't know what to say, Shellcrusher, except that I hear ya on this one. I don't know what to think anymore - I thought quitting drinking would make some sort of difference, but it actually seems to have intensified his nastiness. If I disagree with him on even the mildest of things, he goes unhinged and attacks me, my values, my character, my program, etc. He has yet to call me fat and ugly though. I keep waiting for that one because at least it'd be something NEW.
Who was I dating and subsequently married? Where did that guy go? Jeez - he must have been one heck of an actor to play me for 2 years before unveiling the monster within.
Stick to your plan.
~T