Sentencing is today
Well, today is the day. He's supposed to turn himself in at 1:30. I haven't heard from my daughter in 24 hrs, I hope she is ok.
Her ex husband wants me to go with him. I want to, I want to see myself what happens, if they show up, how many years he gets, and if my daughter stands up and pleads for him.
But, then again maybe I don't want to see it.
I know I don't want to go with her ex. I love her, I think that is sending a very strong message that I am against her. They have such a terrible relationship, and even though he is being fantastic with the kids, he didn't treat her right when they were married, he cheated on her constantly, and caused alot of her self esteem issues and that is when her drinking started. It was a terrible divorce.
But I could go by myself and sit by myself. She absolutely does not want me there.
But then, she doesn't care about my feeling, so that shouldn't bother me. She keeps saying she has to do things her way, and cannot live for anyone else... So, I guess that goes for me too.
Should I go? (jumbled I know)