Steve, you can either continue to hold onto hope for this situation, which we all know is a test in futillity, or you can let it go and move on with your life. This has been going on long enough, and there have been enough setbacks that everyone here can see that you are causing your own problems with this situation.
Everyone is asking that you post more about YOU and what YOU are doing for YOURSELF. Tell us more about your garden and post some pictures.