A lot of this advice is difficult to hear. I have to admit that I have been handled with kid gloves by most.... maybe this is what I need: the cold shock of reality.
And maybe the comments are doubly painful to read, since they ring so true.
I'm going to get out of my pity party today and spend some time with a healthy supportive friend.
Also I'm searching for a Nar Anon Friends group in Toronto (that is secular). Would that be difficult to find?