I had a crash lesson in acceptance when my son chose to do drugs rather than go to college. I had to accept that the only way to help him was to kick him out of the house. I had to accept that if I did that, he could end up homeless, sick or even dead. I had to accept that my precious son might die. I got there, too. I had no choice, really....not if I wanted him to get better.
Yes, this has been the hardest lesson for me too.
Acceptance is power.
I can learn the lesson and accept the power I have now to enjoy my life.
That, I don't need to punish and self-sacrifice because I have failed to
save my son.
It has not been my job to save him.
I can love and accept him as he is and try to enjoy some time together when possible.
Otherwise, I am responsible for my life.
Beth