Hey Jamaica. I'm glad you are feeling something other than what is normal for you. Growth maybe? Sounds like it to me.
Maybe next time you won't answer the phone at all... you know he was using it as a pretext to talk to you. Manipulation feels like manipulation and, when you have enough recovery to recognize your own feelings again you start to feel them-- then you get pissed off.
Winner!
Good job and take care,
Cyranoak