I guess what i mean about "being friends" is that i'm going to try to keep my emotions in check on not take all that he's doing personally...like i would as a wife (cause as a wife i'm totally getting screwed). the constant arguments we have about how this is hurting ME don't seem to be helping anything.
Also, i can't explain my reasons very well to people that don't know him or the entire situation....but i really truelly believe he has not slept w/ anyone etc. HOWEVER, i'm very afraid it may happen in the future if he doesn't start getting help now..
also what kind of AA group should i look for? i thought that was just for people who wanted to quit drinking?
thanks for the replys i'll def keep coming to this site!