Mesh,
when i quite drinking. it felt often that my husband was trying to sabotage it, that he was trying to get me to drink again. In many ways. I do not know if it was intentional or not, or if i was being overly sensitive. It doesn't really matter.
what mattered was that i had to recover. I had to do the work. If i chose to drink, it would be my responsibility, no one else's, no matter what. Stay strong. Remember why you are doing this. don't let anyone take that away from you or give you an excuse.