Originally Posted by
kittykitty 
Hi Mum,
From one boundary-setter to another, hugs to you. I've been here, although not with marriage and kids in the picture, but the boundary thing. You're boundary is that he quit drinking. Cutting back is not enough. Quit completely. How can he only be cutting back on drinking, and respecting your boundaries at the same time?
:ghug3
When I say he is respecting my boundaries I meant by not calling me after he has been drinking or if we see each other he is sober.