Originally Posted by
Midwestman 
To me is sounds like your BF is becoming an ABF. You have every right to be concerned. As far as "normal" drinking goes...your alcohol consumption seem about right..IMHO
I am not familiar with all the terminology, if someone could define, I would be thankful
I have seen ABF, XABAF...I can only guess at what it means, I can't find definitions anywhere
I personally only have a beer 1-2 times a week, maybe 2 times a month, maybe 4. I rarely if ever drink anything else besides wine or wine coolers. But I'm probably very conservative so I didn't consider myself normal.
I assumed normal was my husband.