Yeah. I'd told him he needed to submit a modification to visitation request to the court since it would maybe be an on-going change and not a one-time event. And since it was his work schedule mucking up the visit schedule - it is not my job to revise the visitation when it's his cr-p that's causing the change. (I think I was a bit more diplomatic on my e-mail to him ... although I did include an allusion to my doubt about it being an on-going change....)
I should have known. I think I jinxed it. :P I started planning camping trips for this summer: if he's 2 weeks on, 2 weeks off, I can take DS camping these weeks / weekends. Now, I have no weekends again - at least until the next change in jobs or until his GF gets tired of how he 'deals with his stuff'.
So in addition to trying to trust in my HP, I'm trying really hard to remember that the whole scenario has changed a LOT and OFTEN already, it'll change again.
(BTW, Barb - I love your new photo! Great picture.)